Monday, December 22, 2014

Merry Christmas!


It's hard to believe Christmas is almost here! Living in a tropical climate makes it so hard to mark the seasons because the weather is pretty much always the same.

We have had a slight change in our weather here. Instead of reaching in the the mid-90s every day, now we're only averaging 80-83 at midday. The mornings and evenings dip down into the 60s, which has been very enjoyable.

Even though today marks the completion of our fourth month here in the Dominican Republic, this season is feeling much more like a halfway point for us. Because of the semester break, the Christmas season, the change in weather and the changes that are coming in our routine, we feel like we've completed the first phase of life here. Now it's time for something new!

The biggest change that is coming is a more frenzied schedule. Starting in January we'll have visitors with us for at least two weeks of every month except for May. We're very excited to have family, friends and missions trips here with us, but it also means a new set of responsibilities and many plans to make. We'll get back into our normal ministry opportunities in January, but there will be interruptions each month. This isn't a bad thing, just a different thing!

Our first four months here have been incredible! We've had good times, bad times, fun times, confusing times, relaxing times, frustrating times and many, many times when God has clearly worked in and through us.

As we look back at the first four months here, sometimes it's hard for us to remember all the amazing things that happened because it was a time of huge adjustment for us. We have been learning a new language, a new culture, a new family routine and new ways of doing everyday things. We went to bed exhausted nearly every night for the first two months here because of all that we were trying to understand and learn.

This is not to say we've arrived and have become a fully integrated Dominican family, because were' far from that. But it is safe to say that we spend less and less of each day trying to understand what's happening and we're able to actively engage with what's happening. Our ears are catching up to Dominican Spanish. We've got a better grasp of the culture we live in. We're accustomed to the place we live and all of the ways it's different than our home in Indiana.

God has faithfully carried us through the first phase. We're excited to see what He's got planned for the next phase!

Here are a few specific updates:

Last week was a tough one for many of the people in our church. Starting Sunday night, three people who had connections to people in our church died. Two were young men who were in separate motorcycle accidents on the same night. The third was the father of one of the young men in our church. We were able to go to his house the night he died, and then again the next day to attend the funeral and burial. It was a sad day, but it was also awesome to see how this young man's faith in God has carried him through his grief.

Christmas season here in the Dominican Republic is quite different from what we're used to. Here the Christmas season is marked with a lot of partying, which means there is a lot of loud music playing until all hours of the night. It also means the streets are even more dangerous and we have to be extra careful whenever we drive. Our friends here have told us that every December brings a lot of deaths, mostly because many people don't have a lot of hope that the new year will actually come and want to live it up as this year ends. So far, the three deaths of last week are all we've experienced and we hope it stays that way!

Our family has been invited to spend Christmas Eve with Eduardo's family. We'll join his extended family for a Christmas Eve dinner at a relative's house and then come home, hopefully before the crazy partying starts in our town! We're excited to experience how Dominicans celebrate Christmas, especially because almost all of Eduardo's family are Christians and they share the same focus as we do during this time of year.

We're excited about an opportunity we have the first week of January 2015. We'll accompany several of the youth from our church on a mission trip to Azua, a city in the Southern part of the country. This is the second time our youth have made the trip to Azua to minister alongside a vibrant church there. We have some relationships with people in Azua as several of the translators from our previous trips are part of this church in Azua. We're excited to be reunited with them, meet their pastor and work with their church.

Here are some specific ways to pray for us:

  • Safety during the Christmas season. We don't plan to be out past dark very often, but even during the daytime the streets are pretty crazy right now. 
  • Peace and comfort for the young man in our church who lost his father. His mother is also part of our church.
  • God's blessing on our mission trip to Azua. The trip is January 2-5 and it would be great to know many of you are praying for God to guide and protect us.
  • Flexibility as our schedule changes. We don't know exactly what the new year will bring, but we're excited to see how God uses us. We want to be flexible enough that we're always open to the opportunities He brings our way.


Thank you all so much for your continued support, prayers and love! We love you all very much! Merry Christmas!

Thursday, November 20, 2014

A New Normal

First of all, we're sorry it's been so long since our last update. We had every intention of sending shorter updates more often, but it's been difficult to find the time and to pull our thoughts together on a regular basis. So, for now, we're sending longer updates less often. Hopefully that's OK with all of you!

We're closing in on the end of our third month here in the Dominican Republic. We've had plenty of ups and downs during these three months and we're happy to say that God has been present and faithful through it all.

For the last several weeks we've started to realize that many of the things that are so different from home are actually starting to feel normal. This is true in the small and big things. Here are some examples:

Food
We all like Dominican food but learning how to prepare it was a difficult process. Even preparing the types of food we're used to was not easy. Finding ingredients can be tricky at times. We had no measuring utensils in our kitchen and for a long time our refrigerator couldn't keep food fresh long enough to be able to use it in our cooking.

But now we have a new refrigerator (thanks to a generous gift from an anonymous supporter) and we've learned where to find the ingredients we need. We recently received a set of measuring spoons and cups. Our friend Adriana (mother of Eduardo) has been teaching Katie how to prepare several Dominican dishes. Katie also has a Dominican cookbook that has helped her learn how to cook some common Dominican meals.

Food is a small thing, but it's such a frequent thing that it feels very significant.

Culture
Learning to live in a new culture is a very big thing. It's something we'll probably still be learning when our year comes to an end. However, we've learned a lot already and it's starting to feel normal. We aren't confused as often as we once were. We knew this year was going to require a lot of flexibility and patience, but living here requires much more of both than we were prepared for. Visiting families in their homes was very awkward and uncomfortable at first, but now we look forward to those visits!

Church culture is also very different here and for a long time we were confused during church services and meetings. Now, however, we understand more of what's going on - even if we can't understand everything that's being said - and we deeply appreciate the passion with which the people of this culture worship God. Dominican prayer is a beautiful, passionate, loud and moving thing to be a part of.


All of this is to say that we have started to settle into a new normal. We still miss home and we haven't become Dominican, but we are starting to appreciate the differences. We no longer experience something new every day, although many days still bring new things!

Other news:
Hanah and Eduarni (Eduardo's sister) in front of the Jelly Roll.

We have some great news ... we finally have a vehicle of our own! We recently purchased a 1986 Toyota Model F minivan. With the help of some friends who recently came to visit, we have decided to name the van Jelly Roll because it's white on the outside and red on the inside. We purchased the van for a much lower price than we expected to pay. It had been sitting in storage for the last two years, so it needed some work. Even this, though, turned out to be a blessing. One of the leaders of our church is a mechanic and so we were able to hire him to do all the necessary work. We've already driven the Jelly Roll to Jamao (1 hour up in the mountains) and twice to Santo Domingo (2 hours) without any problems. We're thankful to have our own transportation, as well as a vehicle with the space to carry quite a few people.

Eating lunch with the Rassi family in Santo Domingo.
So far we've had two visits from Indiana friends. Dr. Randy & Bonnie Suttor visited in September. Clay & Becki Rassi and their two sons just left two days ago. We spent two days in Santo Domingo with them before they spent three days with us here in Guanabano. Both visits were very refreshing and encouraging for us. We're thankful for their time and generosity! We have more visitors coming soon and we're very excited to show them the ministry opportunities God has given us.

Another item we'd like to share is the health of the ministry of Pastor Quina's churches. We came into this year thinking we could help provide a bridge between Quina carrying most of the responsibility and other leaders stepping up to relieve her. However, what we've found is that Quina has a great leadership team in place already! She has built a group of leaders who carry much of the load. Quina is still the lead pastor but she gives many responsibilities to the people of the church. There is a rotation of 3-4 people who preach on Sundays. Several others share messages during the weeknight meetings. There are enough musicians to make up several worship teams.

Quina spends a lot of time visiting sick or elderly people in the community. She still preaches every 2-3 weeks. She also puts a lot of her energy into organizing projects that help people in need. Whenever someone in the church has a problem, Quina is almost always the first one to respond. She usually has a driver who picks up people on Sunday mornings, but when he's not available, Quina jumps in the van and drives all over Moca!

We have been incredibly blessed by the generosity, love, hospitality and encouragement of the church here in Guanabano. One of the most significant ways we have started to realize a new normal is within our church family. For a long time we felt like visitors every time we went to a church service, but now we feel like part of the family, part of the community.

Thank you all for your continued prayers, emails, letters and love! God bless you all!

Friday, October 3, 2014

Stripped

Our last couple weeks here in the Dominican Republic have been difficult and wonderful at the same time. Without any special effort on our parts, we've sensed God's presence in a new, strong way. He seems to be speaking to us every day and directing our circumstances in such a way as to teach us lessons so He can speak to us even more!

This sounds like a wonderful experience - and it is - but it's also very difficult. In the past few weeks we've been consistently stripped of things. Now that we're more than a month into our time here, we can look back and see all the things that have been taken away from us ... and we're pretty sure God's not done yet!

We've been stripped of possessions. We recently had some of our clothes stolen while they were hanging to dry at Pastor Quina's house. We left behind many things when we made the move to the Dominican Republic, like our house, car, furniture, appliances, yard, etc. There have been times in the last month that we have yearned for many of these things.

We've been stripped of comfort. The place we live is very nice by the world's standards. We have everything we need, and more. But it's not home. It doesn't have soft carpet, comfortable couches, a quiet back yard or consistent electricity. Instead it has concrete floors, a metal roof, inconsistent electricity, lots of noise and lots of ants! Many people in the world would consider themselves very lucky to live there, and we're very grateful as well, but it's not comfortable. And it's not easy.

We've been stripped of relationships. When we said yes to the call of God to come to the Dominican Republic for a year we knew it meant saying goodbye to many people ... for at least a year. We counted the cost and we are convinced that following Jesus is more important than any earthly relationship. But, that doesn't mean we don't need those people. We miss being able to walk a few blocks to visit with family, or drive a few minutes to visit with friends. We have friends here, but it's not the same.

We've been stripped of our identity. We no longer hold the positions we used to hold. Dan is no longer a graphic designer or a do-it-yourselfer handyman. Katie is no longer a volleyball coach or a stay-at-home mom like she was back home. We are no longer part of the majority race. We can no longer communicate clearly with the people in our lives. (Side note: When you can't communicate clearly people tend to treat you like you can't do anything else well either. I wonder how many times I've treated someone as incapable just because he/she couldn't communicate clearly or was socially awkward.)

What will we be stripped of next?

No matter what else there is in our lives that needs to be removed, we know God will use it to draw us closer to Him. With every item that has been stripped away, we've sensed the voice of God asking us, "Where do you find your joy? Was it in that thing or in me?"

We are starting to see how many things in our lives have become idols - the things we run to or lean on for our joy, comfort and peace. We can now see how our identity has become wrapped up in the things we have, or the things we can do, or the positions we hold.

God has been asking us, "Who do you think you are? Are you a graphic designer or my child? Are you a white American or my disciple? Are you comforted by the things of this world or only by me?"

As we say goodbye to more and more things, we are realizing that we have nowhere to turn but to our Heavenly Father. He truly is all we need! 

When our clothes get stolen we can shrug our shoulders and say, "We still  have Jesus!"
When we see ants crawling across our dining room table, hoping to find a crumb from our plates we can smile and say, "Thank you, God, for this food."
When the power goes out and our ceiling fans stop moving we can pray, "Heavenly Father, please keep us cool tonight."
And when misunderstandings happen because we can't fully understand the language or the culture we can trust God to give us every word we need to fulfill His purposes.

So, what about you? Do you have idols that have replaced your Heavenly Father? If so, you can get rid of them now ... or you can wait until He does it for you!

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Lessons from Life in the DR

We are approaching the end of our fourth week in the Dominican Republic and, needless to say, we have been learning a lot. These early days have been full of new experiences, new sights, new sounds, new food and new relationships.

Here are a few of the most significant lessons we’ve learned:

SLOW DOWN
We are no longer living in an instant culture like we were in the United States. Supplies, materials, tools, certain foods and resources aren’t as readily available here. It probably sounds worse than it is because the people here are used to it. They don’t get stressed or angry when they can’t have what they want right now. I’m sure there are exceptions, but for the most part it is just accepted that some things are going to take some time to get accomplished.

REDUCE/REUSE/RECYCLE
This is not something most visitors to the DR will probably notice, but establishing a home here makes you realize the importance of reducing your waste, reusing what you can and recycling/repurposing as much as possible. Pastor Quina is a master at using things most people would consider trash to create beautiful crafts. We have been using empty plastic containers (like pop bottles) to store water or juice. During our short-term visits here we thought nothing of using disposable plastic cups whenever we got thirsty, but now we see how much plastic gets tossed in the trash so we try to use real cups when we’re home. Another reason to be conservative is because some things are very expensive here and so it just makes good sense to make those things last as long as possible!

REST
Most of you are probably aware of the term “siesta” and understand that it refers to a time of rest in the afternoon. In the DR the term “mediodia” refers to a two-hour period of time in the early afternoon when most businesses close and most people retreat to a shady spot to eat lunch and rest during the hottest part of the day. With our American culture lenses this can look kind of lazy at first. But when we realized that those businesses make up for the two hours of rest by staying open later, our minds were changed. Also, experiencing the midday heat here makes it easy to understand why this culture appreciates the time of rest, shade and refreshment.

WORSHIP
“Si Dios quiere.” (If God desires it.)
“Gracias a Dios.” (Thanks to God.)
“Gloria a Dios.” (Glory to God.)
“Dios te bendiga.” (God bless you.)
Those are a few of the phrases we hear every day in the course of normal conversations. The commonality of those phrases illustrates how deeply the worship of God is ingrained in every part of Dominican life. Sure, we use some of these phrases too, but they aren’t nearly as common in the US as they are here. Oftentimes we use the word worship only when we’re referring to singing songs of praise, but seeing and hearing people worship in every part of life here has been an eye opener to us!

THE VALUE OF QUIET & THE VALUE OF LOUD

Urban/suburban life in the Dominican Republic is LOUD! Whether it’s noisy motorcycles buzzing past, extremely loud music coming out of cars and homes or loud animals, this place is rarely quiet. Living in a building with an open-air front room and a metal roof doesn’t help insulate us from the noise. We have come to appreciate the quiet times we get – sometimes early in the morning or late at night we get a reprieve from the noise. But we’ve also come to appreciate some loud things here. For example, we go to church services four times a week and there is always LOUD times of singing praise to God. If there’s a band the music is really loud. If there’s no band, then everyone sings really loud. Especially during the services with no band, we enjoy the sound of people lifting their voices to their Heavenly Father.

Thursday, September 4, 2014

What does our mission look like?

We have been living in the Dominican Republic for almost two weeks now but it feels like so much longer. That probably sounds really negative, but we mean it in a good way. It feels like we’ve done more and seen more than what is possible in just two weeks.

We have church services four times a week. We visit a school on Tuesday mornings. We help with basketball practice twice a week and we teach an English class Wednesday nights. Add in random ministry opportunities that come up and it makes for a pretty busy schedule!

That busyness, combined with the heat, can be pretty tiring. But God has been faithful to sustain us and give us energy to do it all and be ready to do it again the next day!

Here’s what some of our ministry opportunities look like:




Tuesday Morning Visits to the School:
First of all, this school is called a colegio, which is pretty confusing because the word looks like college, but it’s a school for elementary and junior high students. It’s a private school and the owners are Christians. We had the chance to be part of a special prayer service at the school the night before the first day of school. We’ve since visited twice on Tuesday mornings. The owners asked us to play sports with the students and have also encouraged us to share messages about Jesus with them.

The playground has a volleyball net so we’ve been playing volleyball with the students. On our last visit we tried to teach them how to spike a volleyball. The youth we brought with us also organized a really fun game and then we split the students into age groups for a time of sharing about Jesus.

Hanah’s highlight: Playing volleyball and spending time with the cute little kids.
David’s highlight: Playing ball with the students.
Katie’s highlight: Seeing familiar faces when we return to the school or when we see the students around town.
Dan’s highlight: Listening to the youth from our church share the love of Jesus with the students.


Helping With Basketball Practice:
There are two places in our town where you can regularly find kids playing basketball. One is the cancha, which is an outdoor court at the park. Usually you only find kids there in the late afternoon and evening because it’s so hot during the day. The other place is called the multiuso. It’s a covered gym where you can almost always find kids playing. There is a man in our town named Victor Rojas who has dedicated his life to using basketball as a way to teach kids about respect, hard work, discipline, sharing and teamwork. His mission is to raise men who will become good citizens, good husbands and good fathers.

Victor is so passionate about what he does and has welcomed us with open arms. In the past few years, Bethel College has sent basketball teams to our town and Victor has been deeply touched by their visits. Seeing people invest time and energy in the mission that he’s dedicated his life to has been a huge blessing for Victor.

Our role in Victor’s work is simple: Come to the court, help him in whatever way we can and share messages of God’s love with the boys (and some girls too). We believe Victor is Catholic and he believes in God. We’re also praying that he will surrender his life to Jesus.

Dan has had the chance to help Victor with teaching basketball skills to the boys as well as sharing messages with them. The rest of our family and the youth from our church are also participating and spending time with the boys.

This is one of our greatest opportunities during our time here because:
  • Pastor Quina is a believer in what Victor is doing. She wants us to spend time with him and help make the Gospel a bigger part of his work.
  • Victor is a very influential figure in our town. All the boys and young men who spend time with him respect him deeply and he needs help! He works with more than 100 boys and young men – sometimes all at one time – by himself.
  • This town is crazy about basketball and Victor’s work at the Multiuso is the center of basketball activity here. His openness to our message is amazing.
  • The Bethel basketball team is returning next summer to spend time with the boys and so we can help Victor prepare for their visit.


As we’ve taken part in these ministry opportunities, we’ve learned a lot from the people we’ve spent time with. We’ll share some of the lessons we’ve learned in our next post!

Thursday, August 28, 2014

Hola from the Dominican Republic!

It is 1 p.m. on our 5th day in the Dominican Republic. We’re sitting in our bedroom trying to stay cool but not having much success. The middle of the day is the hottest (It’s 97 degrees in our bedroom) and that’s why many businesses shut down from 1-3 p.m. Many people will go to their homes, eat lunch and look for a cool place to rest. Some will try to use the two free hours to run errands or visit friends. For us these first five days have been too busy to get much rest, but today we’re taking it easy during these few hours. Usually a cold shower, a t-shirt and a pair of shorts will make us comfortable until the heat subsides a bit.

The heat in the Dominican Republic is one of the things we were prepared for when we got here. Our past experiences here have taught us many things, but there are also many things we don’t know and weren’t prepared for.

Overall, our first few days here were full of good things, but there were several hard things too. Adjusting to life in a different culture, with different people, in a different home, is not easy or comfortable. But then, God didn’t call us to something comfortable and easy. He called us to leave the things that were making our lives comfortable and easy.

So we may be discouraged at times, but we’re not defeated.  We may be lonely at times, but we’re not alone. We may be weary at times, but we always have hope.

God is faithful, in the good times and the bad. He has called us to something greater than ourselves and so we count it a great blessing to adjust to a new way of life with the amazing people of the Dominican Republic!

Shortly after arriving Friday, Aug. 22, Pastor Quina started to explain to us her ideas for our year of service here. She has since put us in charge of ministry to the youth and children of the largest of her churches, in the town of Guanabano (the official name of the town is Cayetano Germosen if you want to try to find it on a map sometime). We have met with the youth several times to come up with a plan to maximize the time we have with them.

Just to be clear, our goal is not to be youth pastors or children’s pastors while we’re here. We can, however, help facilitate the growth of the leadership that already exists here. There is a strong foundation of young adults who are passionate and eager to lead the way in advancing the Gospel in Guanabano and the surrounding communities.

Aside from working within Pastor Quina’s churches, we also have an opportunity to visit one of Guanabano’s private schools one day each week. We started the first of our Tuesday morning visits yesterday and it was a great time of games, laughs, new friendships and sharing God’s love with the children. There are about 100 students in the school, ranging from grades 1-8. Each day we are there we have the freedom to play sports & games, lead them in other activities and talk to them about the love of Christ! It is a great opportunity and several youth from the church in Guanabano are excited to be part of this ministry.

We will also partner with a man named Victor Rojas who everybody knows as Guanabano’s basketball coach. Victor has dedicated much of his life to working with boys and young men. He loves the game of basketball, but he is also passionate about training boys and young men to be respectable citizens, good husbands and fathers, responsible adults and kind people. Nearly every day of the week Victor is at the city’s gymnasium leading a group of men or boys in a basketball practice and teaching them the principles of teamwork, good attitudes, hard work, dedication and respect. Victor and Pastor Quina have agreed that it will be a valuable partnership between Victor and us. So we plan to be with him each Saturday morning, ready to help lead the biggest of his groups (more than 100) in their practice but also in activities or our choosing. Victor has given us complete freedom to share the Gospel and the love of Jesus with these boys!

We are very excited about these and other opportunities to tell people about Jesus and to serve these communities.

Physically, all of our family is doing very well. We are all healthy, though a bit fatigued at times because of the heat. We are enjoying the delicious fruits and other foods of the Dominican Republic. Our friends here are taking great care of all of us and we have all made new friends already.

God has been good to us and we trust His provision will continue as we are seeking Him daily. We want to stay obedient and not just settle into a routine or go through the motions of our ministry opportunities.

Here are a few prayer requests:

  • Ants. We have many ants everywhere in our Dominican home, this includes the refrigerator and in our beds. Please pray for God to remedy this and give us wisdom on how to keep the ants at bay.
  • Friends. God has been so incredibly faithful to bless our kids with wonderful kids in the young adult group. They are great role models and very kind. We are also blessed to have a 14 year old boy named Eduardo living with us. He is a great friend and very helpful to us. Kids in the neighborhood can be a little bit more difficult to adapt to and make friends with. 

Thursday, August 21, 2014

A Few Parting Words

Here we are on the evening before we make our big move to the Dominican Republic for a year. This has been a week full of work, sweat, dirt, hugs, prayer, tears, laughs and a wide range of emotions.

It is nearly impossible to describe the feelings we're experiencing as we are almost ready to make the move God has called us to make. It is the strangest mix of excitement and loss, of anticipation and anxiety. We are more convinced than ever that we are doing what God has told us to do, but the reality of saying so many goodbyes to beloved people makes the process very difficult!

We want to thank everyone who has supported us in any way, and that's a lot of people! We would not be able to do this without you and your generosity - both in prayer and in finances. So, THANK YOU!

Throughout the last month, and especially the last week, we've learned some lessons:

1. The best goodbyes are when family or friends cry because you're leaving but also cheer you on through the tears. We have been blessed with times of prayer, encouragement and hugs during our farewells.

2. This is not the end, but the beginning. With the BIG step directly in front of us, it's tempting to start wondering, "What's next God?" It's not that we feel like we've completed the task, just that we're almost past the first big hurdle. The lesson for us is that we should be asking every single day, "What's next God?" Then when He speaks, we can obey.

3. Obeying God is simply the BEST way to live! It's not the easiest. It's not the most comfortable. It's not predictable and it's not always neat and tidy. But it is always the best! Walking in obedience these past few years, and especially the last several months, has revealed our Father's love for us in new and amazing ways. He always wants the best for us, even if it means we have to go through difficulties in order to get there!

In the Gap, a book by Pastor Wilfredo
DeJesus, is one of our current reads. You
can buy it HERE!
4. WALK TOWARD NEED! God has faithfully continued to speak to us, even when we've been almost too busy to stop and listen. During the Willow Creek Global Leadership Summit on Dan's last day of work at Nappanee Missionary Church, God used Pastor Wilfredo DeJesus to speak what may be the defining words of our time in the DR. WALK TOWARD NEED is easy to say and anyone who wants to follow Jesus would quickly acknowledge that it's the right attitude to have, but it is much more difficult to live out! As those words rang in my ears, I saw pictures of specific people and situations I've noticed on past trips to the Dominican Republic. Fear seized me when I thought of actually walking toward those people and their needs! But the example of Jesus is clear - He walked toward poor people, sinners, outcasts, sick people, lepers, beggars and prostitutes. He saw them with eyes of love and an intention to DO something for them. Isn't it interesting that we don't read of Jesus seeing a need, praying about it and then moving on? Prayer was an integral part of Jesus' life but so was ACTION! Please pray for us, as we hit the ground tomorrow in the Dominican Republic, that we will have the courage to WALK TOWARD THE NEED and DO SOMETHING!

Until we get settled in our new country, we will likely not have telephone service, but here are a few ways you can contact us via the internet:

Email: danweiss76@gmail.com
           krweiss78@gmail.com

Skype: dominicanweissfamily (please email first to set up a time with us)

In closing, our kids wanted to share a few words with all of you!

From HANAH:
HOLA! I just want to share about how God is speaking to me and preparing us to leave. This past week I was looking for my iPod charger, I was so upset because I couldn't find it anywhere. So I found a quiet spot to sit where I could concentrate. I prayed and asked God to help me find it. The moment I finished praying God told me exactly where it was and I found it with God's help! I just want to say that I was so amazed that night. I am so excited to see God moving in not only you but the people we minister to down in the Dominican Republic. God is so amazing and He is so kind and compassionate! As God has called us to move to the DR I want you all to know that you don't have to be called right now or have a call right this second. God will call you when He is ready to make the move! Could I ask you to pray for not just me specifically but my whole family to have just a wonderful peace and calmness while we prepare to leave and that we would be able to make great connections with others!! I am so thankful that God will be standing with us all the way, in the sadness, and in the happiness, and in the hard times, and in the amazing God moment times! Thank you for your wonderful support! I want to say that I am pumped to go and just serve my heart out, but I am also sad that I won't be seeing some of my friends for this year. I have a list of emotions but I can't list them all...
1. I am like totes (totally) excited.
2. I am sad to say goodbye.
3. I can't even believe that we're leaving TOMORROW!!!!
That's all I can get out tonight. And plus, David is begging me to get off so we can play a game. I might as well! I will miss you all!!!!!! - Even if I don't know you very well!:)
ADIOS!!!!
Love,
*Hanah Weiss*    :)

From DAVID:
What's up? I just wanted to say some special Thank Yous and some special Goodbyes. First I want to thank my Grandparents for letting us spend the night at their house. I want to thank my Grandparents for being so supportive. I want to say a special goodbye to Tyrus and a special goodbye to the Reimer family. I want to say a big Thank You to GOD!!!
Adios!

Monday, August 4, 2014

The Final Countdown - How You Can Help

UPDATE: Less than 14 hours after publishing this post both of our physical needs were met by friends! God has blessed us with many amazing people whose generosity has been overwhelming. Thank you all so much for the love and encouragement.

We're less than three weeks away from moving to the Dominican Republic to being our year of service. Even though this is a journey that started more than three years ago, it feels like it has all happened really fast! We're more excited than ever to GO but we've also got the reality of everything that has to be done HERE. We've got lots of arrangements to make before we go and God has faithfully helped us with the right steps.

As we plan for the move, we're realizing we've got a lot of things we could use your help with. The most important of all is your prayer. Here are some ways you can pray for us:

  • The ability to hear and follow God's voice into the unknown.
  • Obedient hearts and minds. We have come this far by simply saying "Yes" to God and we don't want to stop now!
  • Peace and rest in this busy, hectic season of our lives.
  • Courage to say goodbye to family and friends here and hello to the new people God puts in our lives there.

In addition to prayer, there are a couple things we could use help finding:

  • A home for our cat, Jack, for the year that we are gone. Jack is a large orange cat (see picture to the right) who is neutered. He's a very loving, cuddly cat who likes to spend time both outside and inside. He's great with our kids and our dog. We're not sure how he would do with other cats in the same house because he's very territorial with the other cats in the neighborhood while he's outside. If you would like to cat-sit or adopt Jack please let us know! Call Katie at (574) 400-9936 or email her at krweiss78@gmail.com.
  • We are looking for a laptop computer that we can use to watch homeschool curriculum DVDs as well as continue using our Rosetta Stone software. It doesn't have to be brand new, super fast or have the highest quality screen. It would be nice if it is Wi-Fi ready, but not required. Also, a built-in web cam is preferable but not required. If you have one, or know someone who has one that would like to donate it to us, or sell it to us at a good price, let us know! Call Dan at (574) 256-8783 or email him at danweiss76@gmail.com.

Like we said, we are very excited to get started with our year of service in the Dominican Republic. And even though there are some loose ends to tie up, we are not overwhelmed or discouraged. God has provided everything we need - and more - throughout this whole process so we have no reason to doubt He will do it now.

If you feel like God is asking you to pray for us or provide for any of the needs listed above, please be obedient. We'd love for you to be part of our support team and take you on this journey with us!

Thank you all. We love you!

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Our Mango is FULL!


As of today, July 17, we have officially passed the point of being 100% funded for our year in the Dominican Republic!

The way we figure our support balance can be a little confusing, so stick with me here:

  • Our account balance currently stands at $36,079.60.
  • We currently have monthly pledges of $17,880.
  • That gives us a grand total of $53,959.60.
  • However, some of the money currently in our account came from those who have started their monthly giving, so we must subtract $2,565.00 from the grand total.
  • That leaves us with an adjusted total of $51,394.60.
  • However, we're not quite done yet!
  • There was one expense of $241.25 for passports. (the expense for flights has not cleared yet)
  • If you add that expense back into the adjusted total, you end up with $51,635.85.

There is one more adjustment that must be made to understand how we have passed 100%. About a month ago, Dan worked with the Nappanee Missionary Church financial staff to pick out a health insurance policy. We found one that came in under our proposed budget of $350 per month and so we have adjusted our budget accordingly. We have also rearranged some items because it makes more sense to consider some things a one-time cost (i.e. health insurance) than a monthly cost. Our new grand total of needed funds is $51,100.00, which is less than the adjusted total above. Therefore, we're happy to announce that our support is currently at 101%!

I know that was a lot of math and I might have lost a few of you along the way. I got lost myself once or twice while typing it! But even if you don't follow, or care about, the numbers, we can all agree that this is a good reason to celebrate and thank the Lord for His provision!

We have been absolutely blown away by the generosity we've seen from many people. Whether it was financial gifts, words of encouragement, time spent mentoring us, time spent teaching us Spanish, help with our Rummage Sale or the many prayers we know have been said on our behalf, we thank God - and you - for all of it!

We are about five weeks away from our departure date and we have a lot of details to take care of in that time. But throughout this whole process God has been teaching us that we can rest in Him. We can trust His plans and His provision in all things. After all, WHEN GOD CALLS GOD PROVIDES!

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

The NEXT Big Step

So, when are you leaving?

That's the most common question we get these days. We never get tired of hearing it, but it has become somewhat tiring trying to find creative ways to answer it! We've only been officially preparing to become missionaries for 132 days, but it feels like we've been hearing this question for a long time.

Most times we'll say it just depends on when our support money comes in. Or more recently, we've been getting a bit more specific, saying possibly August.

Well, we are very happy to share with you that we now have an exact answer!

AUGUST 22

Friday, Aug. 22, is the day we fly to the Dominican Republic to begin our year of service there!

As you can imagine, the pace of our preparations has quickened a bit since purchasing flights. We have a lot to do and a lot of arrangements to make, but we are not overwhelmed by it because we know God has directed our path this far and He won't leave us now!

The flights on August 22 are a big step for us, but they are only the NEXT step. Just getting to the Dominican Republic is not what God called us to do. He didn't ask us to simply live in another country for a year.

Our call has been very clear since the beginning of this process. We are CALLED TO SERVE! We are excited to have a timeline for when our service starts, but it only reminds us of the continued need to be obedient to what our Heavenly Father calls us to do.

We continue to have support needs.

  • We are not yet fully funded so if you feel God calling you to help send us to the Dominican Republic, click HERE and put "Weiss Family" in the space next to missionary support.
  • More than ever, we need people who are committed to pray for us regularly. Pray that we'll be obedient, healthy, prepared and flexible.
  • As we make arrangements to move, needs will certainly arise. Some already have. If you're interested in helping us prepare to leave, please email Dan or Katie.


As always, we are blown away by the support we've received from so many of you. Thank you! We love you all and cannot wait to share this journey with you.

Thursday, June 19, 2014

Support Update - June

Our Heavenly Father is amazing! He is so good to us and He is always faithful!

We just received our latest update and we have some incredible news to share with all of you.

Our new grand total of support currently in our account and that which is pledged to be given throughout the year is $47,166.85!

Several reasons this amount is significant:

1. This total puts us at 90% of our goal and only $5,135 away from 100%.
2. All of our start-up costs (click here for our budget) are currently in our account.
3. We have more than $6,000 currently in our account that can be applied to our monthly expenses.

Being so close to the goal has made us see a need to shift our thinking and prayers toward preparation. Here are some ways you can pray with us:

  • We feel it is appropriate to start asking God to tell us when He wants us to leave. This may or may not be a specific day, but at least a window of time when His timing will be right for us to make the move to the Dominican Republic.
  • As we think about leaving home for a year, the thought of all the logistics and details can quickly become overwhelming. Please pray that God will give us wisdom and foresight so the details don't become too much for us to handle.
  • We need God to prepare our hearts, minds, bodies and spirits. Everything we know is about to change drastically and without His Spirit leading us we will be lost!

Once again, we want to thank all of you who have been so generous with your time, prayers, encouragement and finances. You are being used by God and you are just as much His Hands & Feet as we are. We love you all and will be praying for each of you regularly!


Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Rummage Sale Update





Saturday, May 24, was a beautiful day to have a rummage sale and we were blessed by many helpers and donors who gave time and possessions to make our sale a huge success!

From about 6:45 a.m. until after 6 p.m. there were ALWAYS customers on the parking lot looking at what we had to sell. At the end of the day, we all dragged ourselves back to our house, shared some pizza and thanked God for His goodness to us. The exact amount deposited into our support fund is still not calculated, but it was somewhere around $2,800!

So, for anyone who gave items to sell, made financial donations, spent time helping us organize or helped run the rummage sale, we say a huge THANK YOU!

Friday, May 9, 2014

SUPPORT UPDATE - May

If you're wondering why there is a partial mango above, it's
because mangoes are plentiful and incredibly delicious
in the Dominican Republic. They are one of our favorite
fruits from that country. It also makes for a fun visual way
to keep track of our financial support raising process.
Once again, we find ourselves completely blown away by the encouragement and generosity we've been given! Today as we look over our ever-growing list of people who have committed to pray for us and want to receive updates about our journey to the Dominican Republic, we are amazed that the list contains 50 people/families!

If you've heard us speak about our calling or read this post about support, you know how valuable your prayer and encouragement are to us.

In addition to our list of prayer supporters, today we received our financial support for the month of April and we cannot even put into words how excited and grateful we are! Based on the report and the amount of money pledged to us over our 12 months in the Dominican Republic, we are currently standing at 41.4% which equals $21,635 of our $52,300 budget.

God is so good and He always provides for our needs and equips us for our calling. Thank you all so much for being part of our team and being obedient to the way God is leading you!

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Happiness or Joy?

Over the past few weeks I've been given a much more somber view on our calling to the mission field. It's easy to look at it romantically and think of it as a great adventure. However, the reality is that the adventure may not always be comfortable.

I told some friends recently that I've been thinking about death and suffering lately. That's a sure way to kill a conversation! I haven't been dwelling on negative things, just gaining a proper perspective.

One of the biggest concerns I have right now is that many people think God really just wants to make all of His children happy. If you can find anywhere in the Bible where it says that, please show me!

I know God wants to make our joy complete (John 15:11) and that God works all things for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28) but those are completely different ideas than being happy. Happiness is a momentary, short-sighted emotion. Joy is a deep, lasting state of being that includes peace, contentment, purpose, love and worship.

If God's goal for us is happiness, then He would never demand anything difficult or uncomfortable of us. He would make us as comfortable as possible. But if God wanted us to be so comfortable, why in the world did He need to send us a Comforter?

If He just wants us to always be happy, why would He ask us to lay down our lives and carry a cross?

The more I learn about Jesus and being one of His disciples, the more convinced I am that happiness isn't part of the equation ... but joy is! When Jesus sent out His disciples He warned them that they WOULD be persecuted, flogged and hated. Jesus changed Paul from a zealous religious leader into the greatest missionary the world has ever known. Along the way, Paul was mistreated, shipwrecked, hungry, stoned and imprisoned many times.

So, why do we think living for Jesus is supposed to be easy, comfortable and happy? Where in the Bible can anyone find anything to support those thoughts?

Joy takes a long view of things. Happiness is immediate.

Have you ever made your kids do something they didn't like because you knew it was best for them? Have you ever had to take something away from your kids because you knew it wasn't good for them?

Some lessons can only be learned through pain and discomfort.

When Jesus asked us to go we had to make a choice between happiness and joy. We could have said no and settled for a temporary, surfacey happiness that would not last. Instead, we said yes to the deep, lasting joy that comes from letting go of the things of this world, the plans we've made, the comforts of home. Sure, there will be pain along the way. It is going to be very uncomfortable at times and we may shed some tears. We may even face some dangerous situations that put our lives at risk. Safety is never guaranteed in the Bible either! But in order to get to complete joy we must obey all He has commanded us and remain in the love of our Heavenly Father. (John 15:9-10)

Being a Christian is easy and comfortable because it's all about what you believe and not what you do. Being a disciple of Jesus Christ is hard because you have to do what Jesus did!

Please understand that following Jesus is the absolute most important thing in our lives. That's the legacy we want to leave to our kids. And that's the reason WE HAVE TO GO!

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Hands & Feet Rummage Sale


We are only 50 days into the process of officially pursuing God's call to serve in the Dominican Republic and already our lives have been changed and blessed dramatically!

As we said in our last post, we are so overwhelmed with the generosity we've been shown over the past month. 
  • Support money is coming in!
  • We can feel prayer support happening even now!
  • New relationships are being formed!
  • God is proving Himself faithful every day!
Thank you so much for all you've done and the role you play in our lives.

Now, we've got a big announcement and another opportunity to tell you about.

On Saturday, May 24, we are having a Rummage Sale with all the proceeds going toward our support fund. We have graciously been allowed us to use the parking lot at 2206 Lincolnway East (which is also a block away from our house) to hold the sale and we're really excited about it!

We know many of you regularly have garage sales and so we're asking if this year you would be willing to donate some or all of the items that would normally be part of your garage sale to our Rummage Sale. Even if you don't normally have garage sales and just have some extra stuff you've been wanting to get rid of, would you consider donating it to our sale?

One other opportunity we want you to know about: We'd love your help sorting, pricing and staffing the sale on Saturday, May 24. We haven't figured out all the details yet, but we'll start early in the morning and try to keep the sale going until the sun goes down! So if you're up for a full day of fun with us it would be a great blessing!

Let us know if you want to help out in either of these two ways: 
1) Donating items or 
2) Helping with the sale. 
And, of course, you can do both!

You can email us at danweiss76@gmail.com or krweiss78@gmail.com
You can call us at (574) 256-8783 or (574) 400-9936

Again, thank you all so much for your friendship and support. We love you!

Monday, April 7, 2014

SUPPORT UPDATE - April

The question we are asked most often these days is, "How is your support coming along?"

Until today we haven't been able to give a very good response because we had to wait for our monthly report. Well, we got the report from our first full month of raising support and we are blown away by the generosity of our friends, family and even some people we've never met before!

We're happy to announce that we are currently at 13.6% of our total budget! That means we've received a total of $7,137 of our $52,300 budget.

THANK YOU SO MUCH for your financial support! We are overwhelmed with gratitude!

If you want a quicker look at our support, check out the mango on the right side of the page. Your support will help us get back to the place with the world's best mangoes!

Friday, March 28, 2014

The Truth About Support


I have a confession to make. It's a difficult thing to admit, but I want to be completely honest with you.

In the past, when I've received letters asking for support for long-term or short-term missions, I've been a little skeptical. Not about the mission, but about one of the categories of support being asked for.

I'm talking about prayer support.

Thursday, March 20, 2014

Words From Those Who Have Been There, pt. 3

This is part 3 of a series of posts with testimonials from people who have been to the Dominican Republic to work with Pastor Quina Ovalles. We are currently in the process of raising support to spend a year with Quina near the city of Moca to work alongside her as she leads four Christian & Missionary Alliance churches.

Lindsay Ziegler has been to the Dominican
Republic twice with Nappanee Missionary Church
IMPACT teams.
LINDSAY ZIEGLER
Lindsay is a veteran of two NMC IMPACT teams to the Dominican Republic. She accompanied us on our first trip in 2011 and our most recent trip in 2013. She has also been on a mission trip to Kenya, Africa, and is currently a freshman at Bethel College.

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

What Part are You?



If you spend much time on Facebook these days you've surely seen, or posted, the results of quizzes designed to liken you to a certain character from a movie or TV show. Maybe the quiz was designed to tell you what part of the world you would best fit in. (By the way, I took one of those quizzes - just one - and it said Latin America is where I fit best! Amen!)

Anyway, I think there should be a quiz like that to help you figure out what part of the Body of Christ you are. Wouldn't it be nice to just answer a few easy questions, click a button and get the answer? Then you could start to narrow down God's will and purpose for your life.

While it isn't as easy as taking an online quiz (and sharing it on Facebook, of course) it doesn't have to be a painfully difficult process either.

Thursday, March 6, 2014

Words From Those Who Have Been There, pt. 2

This is part 2 of a series of posts with testimonials from people who have been to the Dominican Republic to work with Pastor Quina Ovalles. We are currently in the process of raising support to spend a year with Quina near the city of Moca to work alongside her as she leads four Christian & Missionary Alliance churches.

Kristy Mikel has been to the
Dominican Republic twice as a leader
of Nappanee Missionary Church
student mission trips.
KRISTY MIKEL
Kristy has been a leader of two Nappanee Missionary Church (NMC) student teams to the Dominican Republic - in 2006 and in 2013. She is a former Missionary Volunteer with World Gospel Mission, having spent a year in Kenya. She has led several other NMC student missions trips, served as a summer camp leader, small group leader and is currently on staff full-time in NMC Student Ministries.

We had the privilege of leading alongside Kristy on the 2013 NMC student IMPACT team. Here's what she had to say about her experience:


First of all, working alongside Quina is an absolute blessing! She makes doing ministry in the DR so easy because what she’s invested over the years has been a ton of time, a ton of relationships built and an incredible partnership with amazing churches! Yet one of the greatest needs I see being met is how Quina continues to take others under her wing to “train them up and send them out.” Whether that is taking a young girl in a rough situation into her home and teaching her how to cook, take care of a household and providing so many valuable life skills, while also teaching her about Jesus or whether it’s raising up leaders in the local church who can carry on the vision, Quina has truly brought God glory on earth by building His Kingdom in Moca and the surrounding area! There is a community there who loves her and is learning more and more how to love Jesus because of the good work she is doing!

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Words From Those Who Have Been There, pt. 1

The relationship between Nappanee Missionary Church (NMC) and Pastor Quina Ovalles of Moca, Dominican Republic, goes back to the summer of 2006 when NMC sent a team of high school students to work with Quina for a week.

Since that first team in 2006, NMC has sent three more teams of students, called IMPACT teams. The relationship also established a connection between Quina and Bethel College in Mishawaka, Ind. Two teams of basketball players associated with Bethel College have spent time working with Quina each of the past two summers.

For us, the Weiss family, our first experience with Quina was in the summer of 2011 as Dan and Katie served as leaders for an NMC student team. We returned the following summer with our children. Finally, we helped lead another NMC team in the summer of 2013 and spent extra time in the Dominican Republic as a whole family.

All this is to say that the relationship between NMC and Pastor Quina is approaching 10 years and has given many people a chance to get to know this amazing woman of God and the ministry of her churches.

We would love to let some of those who know Quina tell you about her and about their experiences in the Dominican Republic.

Monday, March 3, 2014

When Will You Leave?

We are excited to get back to the Dominican
Republic so we can see our friends who live
there! In the picture above from last summer
our friend Gueddy is styling David's hair
after he had been outside playing in the rain.
This is the question we hear most often when talking with people about our year of service in the Dominican Republic. People understandable want to know what our timeline looks like.

Unfortunately, we don't have a good answer for their question!

Our timeline will be based on several factors, but the main one is financial support. Nappanee Missionary Church, our sending agency, requires us to have all of our start-up costs (see complete BUDGET here) in cash and all of our monthly expenses in cash + pledges.

Saturday, February 22, 2014

Our Favorite Things About the Dominican Republic

There are so many things we love about the Dominican Republic. It's a beautiful place with beautiful people. It's hard to narrow it down to five, but here are the top five things each of us loves about the DR. As you'll see, we are unanimous in our overall favorite!

Thursday, February 20, 2014

Why Hands & Feet?

As you read about our call to serve in the Dominican Republic you may be wondering why we're using the phrase Hands & Feet. It's a fair question.

We are operating with the simplest of mission statements: SERVE.

As we thought about what our service might look like, we kept coming back to the idea of simply being available in whatever capacity was most beneficial to those we're serving. In that sense, we want to have willing HANDS and ready FEET.

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Called to Serve

SERVE.
That’s our simple mission.
We have been blessed to spend time in the Dominican Republic each of the last three summers and God has made it very clear He intends for us to spend a year serving the Dominican people.
After our first trip to the Dominican Republic we knew speaking Spanish was in our future but didn’t know how or when. After our second trip we felt sure we would return to the country for more than a short-term trip. Finally, last summer during our third trip to the Dominican Republic, God confirmed His plan for our lives.
Pastor Quina Ovalles, of Moca, has started and
leads four Christian and Missionary Alliance
churches in towns outside her city. She has worked
tirelessly for more than 30 years.

We have been called to spend a year serving Pastor Quina Ovalles and the churches she started and leads.
Pastor Quina has started, and still leads, four Christian and Missionary Alliance churches in towns outside the city of Moca. She has worked tirelessly for more than 30 years to serve the people in these towns and in the city of Moca.
Last summer she admitted to us she needs help. This was not an easy admission for such a driven, smart, hard-working and compassionate woman. Nevertheless, her statement only confirmed what we suspected God was calling us to do.
HOW?
Dave Engbrecht, our pastor at Nappanee Missionary Church, often says, “When God calls, God provides.” We can testify to the truth of that statement.
Each of our trips to the Dominican Republic have been made possible, in part, by the generosity of others.
God continues to provide as we have entered a partnership with Nappanee Missionary Church (NMC) and together we are embarking on a new venture.
NMC will serve as our sending agency, which means it will provide oversight, accountability, encouragement and a non-profit financial structure under which to operate.
We are thrilled with the opportunity to build a team to accompany us. More than anything, we need a team of faithful prayer partners. There are many unknown and unforseeable things we will encounter, but with much prayer support we know God will prepare a clear path for us.
We also trust God already has a plan for our financial support during this year. If you feel led by God to help with our financial support, please look at the budget to the right in the Support Us section. There are one-time and monthly giving opportunities.
God has blessed us with many new friends in the
Dominican Republic and we're excited to offer ourselves
as servants to them.
WHEN?
We believe God is calling us to make the move to the Dominican Republic soon. We don’t have an exact date in mind, but our goal is to start our year of service before the 2014-15 school year starts.
In our hearts, we are ready to go now! However, we trust God’s timing and are waiting on His provision of the necessary means for us to serve for a year in the Dominican Republic.
Thank you very much for considering what part you may play in God’s plan for our lives and the lives of our friends in the Dominican Republic.
ABOUT OUR BUDGET
(Our budget is available in the Support Us section to the right)
We have worked hard and drawn on the experience of NMC to keep our budget as simple as possible. We want to be as clear as possible with how we use support money. We don’t take this responsibility lightly and we will always be open to questions.
If anything in our budget raises questions in your mind, feel free to call or email us anytime!
One of the items that may be confusing is U.S. Home Costs. We plan to rent our house to a tenant, but in case that doesn’t work out we must have a way to pay our mortgage and basic utilities. If a tenant covers those costs, the support money we get will be used to support Pastor Quina’s ministry after our year of service is over.
We intend to use any support money left at the end of our year to support Pastor Quina’s churches.
MINISTRY OPPORTUNITIES
We don’t expect there to be too many “typical” days during our time in the Dominican Republic, but there are some tasks we expect to be a regular part of our lives.
Children’s Ministry - Pastor Quina has already let us know she’d like us to work with the children (and there are many) in her churches. We’re excited for this chance for our whole family to be involved in ministry together.
Discipleship - We already have relationships with many people in Pastor Quina’s churches. We expect to enter into discipling relationships with them, both as disciples and disciple-makers.
Work Projects - There are four facilities to maintain, not to mention the possibility of helping people in the community. Working with our hands is fully expected.
Hosting Missionaries - Pastor Quina’s churches receive teams of missionaries on a regular basis. There is a lot of work involved with hosting and we are excited about helping in this area.
Other Opportunities - On our previous visits to the Moca area we have found several opportunities for further ministry, including feeding the poor, sports ministry and door-to-door evangelism.
We are excited to see if God opens a door to any of these opportunities.